Nest is a dating app for gay and queer people who are neurodivergent — built around your pace, your comfort, and your way of connecting.
Jordan, 24
Brisbane · prefers text first
Jordan matched with you — no rush to say hi
Every feature is designed with neurodivergent minds in mind — not bolted on as an afterthought.
No reply timers, no '24 hours' pressure. Conversations stay open as long as you need.
Set your comfort with text, voice, video and in-person. Matches see your preferences upfront.
Reduce animations, soft contrast mode, and adjustable font sizes — all saved to your profile.
Share as much or as little as you like. Find people who genuinely get it because they live it too.
Block out time when you need it. Notifications pause, the world waits, you recharge.
A discreet one-tap exit from any conversation, no explanation needed. Your comfort comes first.
Simple, low-pressure, and designed to feel good from the start.
Share your name, a little about you, and how you like to communicate. No essay required — a sentence or two is plenty.
Scroll through profiles whenever you feel like it. Save people for later, pass, or connect — no pressure to decide right now.
Matches stay open. There's no timer, no urgency. Reply when it feels right — even if that's a week later.
When you're both comfortable, take it off the app. Or don't — some of the best connections start slow.
Nest is free to join. No algorithms pushing you to scroll more. Just genuine people, connecting at a human pace.
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